This is a communication game that can be adapted and played in families, among friends, and in organizations. The variant presented below has the elements of a family game.<\/p>\r\n
What should I do with me, with us (the couple), with you (the children) at home? For example, to give you a present. Where do I get it? Out of the palm of your hand.<\/p>\r\n
Give an imaginary gift to one of your family members. Don’t think about what you will give. Just make the gift gesture The game continues like this:<\/p>\r\n
“This is my present for you.”<\/p>\r\n
The receiver mimes opening the gift:<\/p>\r\n
– Oh, thank you. Here I see …(and say what they would like to receive specifically from you, the giver: it can be an object, a trip, an expedition, an invitation, an appreciation, a promise, a change in your attitude, etc.).<\/p>\r\n
Surprised or not by the gift the other person found, you go on:<\/p>\r\n
\u2014 I knew you would like it because I know about you that… (you are, you like, you want, you can, you know, you do, you would, etc.).<\/p>\r\n
Then switch roles. Do several rounds. Be brave in formulating your desire. If you have been thinking about a trip to the most remote islands or an ascent of Everest for a long time, now is the time to formulate it with courage. Or maybe you want the person who just gave you the gift to be more considerate: \u201cOh, thanks. Here I see you’ve started turning off the lights when you leave the house.”<\/p>\r\n
However, you may be very surprised by the gift that the other person wants. Try to find the reason behind the desire.<\/p>\r\n
What old expectations does it cover or what needs? Has he talked about them before or are you hearing them for the first time?<\/p>\r\n
I look forward to your comments and the discoveries you have made about yourself and about others.<\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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